Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Do you believe in miracles


       My name is Metal Man age 115 living in the mist of the middle earth but believe I once lived in Lord of the Rings... I was diagnosed with Spina bifida at birth . Spina bifida is a condition that affects the spine and is usually and apparent at birth. It is a type of neural tube defect (NTD). Spina Bifida can happen anywhere along the spine if the neural tube does not close all the way. When the neural tube doesn’t close all the way, the backbone that protects the spinal cord doesn’t form and close as it should. This often results in damage to the spinal cord and nerves. Spina bifida might cause physical and intellectual disabilities that range from mild to severe. The severity depends on and the size and location of the opening in the spine Whether part of the spinal cord and nerves are affected. Spina Bifida is when their is a hole in the spine bifta incomplete spine keeping things simple! I met my twin who has a disability in a place that was to me at a point special to many, Kids of Courage. 

Spina Bifida has effected my ability to do any activity from the waist down so I am in a wheelchair but has effected my life drastically because I have seen people who get upset about their disability and I wanted to and did become a life coach to show others. Their is a whole other side to being disabled and Metal Man Life Coaching is dedicated to showing the happiness and they have such a great life ahead. My main challenges are the sores I get on various parts of my body, dating,trying to take steps (but not impossible). Spina Bifida has more advantages then disadvantages "Power to the chair" as he says. For example I get to skip lines and makes life an adventure. 

DOUBTS...they are both advantages and disadvantages, the advantages are when others doubt and your able to do it the sense of accomplishment feels unimaginably amazing and getting doubts in the first place. One story is people are mislead by my diagnoses and assume I am not as smart I actually am I have even been rejected by school for their judgments of being called "mentally retarded". Yet, I have mastered so much in my schooling life despite the challenges involved I achieved receiving my Bachelor's, academic achievements and even started my own small company Metal Man Life Coaching with a Life Coaching degree. Due to my past and helping others in Chai Lifeline,Kids of Courage and Yalla I have helped others.Out of  experience and happiness and joy in helping others to pursue my career. 

I have psudoseizures diagnosed at a time I am unsure regarding the timeline.Psudo Seizures are psychogenic nonepileptic seizures (PNES), or pseudoseizures are paroxysmal episodes that resemble and are often misdiagnosed as epileptic seizures; however, PNES are psychological, emotional, stress-related in origin. Paroxysmal non epileptic episodes can be either organic or psychogenic.  In college I got my first seizure after a stressful event. I need to be cautious person yet I found an ability in me that I am able to stop them.My doctor gave me adavan for emergencies and used to be on lexepro daily but I have gotten better and am no longer on medication. I have experienced a lot of surgeries some of which I shouldn't have survived and I got many miracles.        

Friday, June 16, 2017

Welcome!

Hi my name is Molly or Malka Tomsky, this is not a bunch of complaining on the internet it is teaching people,raising awareness and through my own stories and others(some chose a name others use their real one)  that choose to write and share and teach via this blog for those who feel they have no voice,feel unheard or people who may not be aware.This is an outlet to show people we are more then meets the eye and show others how they can handle our situations instead of being frightened,speak in a baby voice,pretend we don't exist,give us special treatment etc. You are probably wondering how I know anything on this and why I do this?My 3 siblings and myself were diagnosed young.I am 19 years and 6 months old but at 7yrs old I was diagnosed with epilepsy later on ADD, a hernia and major anxiety. My 17yr old sister with autism was diagnosed and voice was stolen at 3yrs old and 2 yrs ago epilepsy, 15yr old sister was diagnosed with  autism but a mistake was made and at 3yrs old asbergers ADD and when she was 12 gain rhomatory arthritis,depression and anxiety.Finally the youngest my 12yr old brother was only 2 when diagnosed with autism and anxiety. So I know quite a bit any questions do not be shy and if you want to partake in this feel free to contact me!!!